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What's unique about my book, Healing Sex Addiction: The Christian’s Journey of Overcoming, is that it includes "overcoming sex addiction testimonials." These stories (testimonies) are true, and my book includes many to encourage you. Overcoming Sex Addiction...

Men, if you do not know it, sex addiction, in its compulsivity over time, becomes a brain addiction. Once triggered, the chemicals in your brain take over. When I became an assistant pastor at Second Baptist in Houston, Texas, an alarming number of messages came...

Men, you must know your sexual addiction triggers regarding acting out in tempting circumstances. Each man has different triggers, and learning how to escape them is necessary. You must practice your escape plans like you would if you were a football player on a team....

As a pastor and a counselor, I can assure you that there is help for sexual addiction. It takes more than courage. It takes more than willpower. It takes the Lord plus Christian counseling and a dedicated support group. My book, Healing Sex Addiction: The Christian’s...

It's true that many churches misunderstand sexual addiction. Let's be honest. THE CHURCH has a significant disconnect regarding the issues of sexual compulsivity. Churches and their leaders often shame and guilt individuals, which in turn perpetuates the secrets of...

What are your sex addiction battle lines in this journey toward transformation? For decades, I headed a support group called Battle Lines and saw many men delivered from sex addiction/compulsivity. Battle Lines was established on this TRUTH: in the Bible, Luke 4:18...

To many, healing sex addiction is a Herculean journey. No one has ever claimed that it's easy. In fact, it's an excruciating battle of the mind, body, and soul. Christians, too, are impacted by this addiction. But the difference between addiction in the secular world...

I want to encourage you, men, that a sexual addiction support group and Christian counseling will help set you free from sexual addiction. I recommend that you become a member of a group that speaks on this subject. Then, find two strong "accountability men" with no...

My work with clients in overcoming sex addiction is due, in large part, to Dr. Patrick Carnes. In the early years, the deeper my understanding of this addiction, the more I kept hearing Patrick Carnes's name. He's the expert of experts on this subject. At the time, I...